S02 E07 – African Immigrant Youth and Elders – The Disconnect

The African immigrant experience in the United States often reveals a striking gap between elders and the younger generation, a gap shaped by culture, expectations, and the realities of migration. Many elders arrive in America with deeply rooted values—respect for hierarchy, communal responsibility, and the belief that success comes through discipline and sacrifice. These principles guided their journey and continue to shape how they raise their children.

Youths, however, grow up navigating two worlds at once. At home, they are expected to embody traditional African values; outside, they encounter an American culture that prioritizes independence, self-expression, and open dialogue. This cultural blend can create tension: elders may interpret questions as disrespect, while youths see them as healthy communication. Similarly, while elders emphasize stable career paths like medicine, engineering, or law, younger Africans in the U.S. increasingly explore creative fields, advocacy, and entrepreneurship—choices that elders may initially view with fear or uncertainty.

Technology also widens the generational divide. Younger immigrants adapt quickly to digital culture, shaping their identities through social media, while elders may struggle with these rapid changes. Yet despite the differences, both generations ultimately want the same thing: opportunity, belonging, and a future built with dignity.

Bridging the gap begins with empathy. When elders share their migration stories and youths explain their American realities, families move from conflict to understanding. These conversations strengthen relationships and support mental wellness—a core goal for every African immigrant household striving for a healthier, better future.

Panelists
Dr. Adeyemi Fatoki
Dr. Caroline Olaleye
Dr. Kenneth Soyemi

Contributors
Mrs. Dorcas Fatoki
Mr. Funmi Onayemi

Host
Funmi Apantaku-Onayemi

Visit our website – https://healthymindbetterfuture.com
Email us – hmbf.podcast@gmail.com

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